During the final week of 2025, Chris and I headed out on a last-minute roadtrip. As we traversed the interstate, we listened to the Libro.fm audiobook, Undimmed, soon to be published by Cecily Mak. She presents a unique framework called the Eight Awarenesses to help us deal with anything we use to escape discomfort. She refers to these bad habits as dimming behaviors—a wide variety of actions we engage in to take the edge off.
verb
- 1.make (something) visible or bright by shining light on it; light up."a flash of lightning illuminated the house"
- 2.help to clarify or explain."placing the events of the 1930s in a broader historical context helps to illuminate their significance"
- 3.decorate (a page or letter in a manuscript) by hand with gold, silver, or colored designs."this is a carefully written, large-format manuscript illuminated by Leonardo Bellini"
Across my 40's, I've slowly begun to trust my inner-knowing. There is still plenty of healing to do, and my hope is that as I continue to make nice with all my various parts, more will be revealed. I am often unaware of the dimmers in my life, which include scrolling through social media on autopilot, mindlessly snacking on crap food, and over-indulging in spirits. Willfully and knowingly doing these things is one thing. However, more often than not, I'm unconsciously going through the motions with limited awareness of how they impact my wellbeing. Illumination means clarity of purpose and increased intention—two goals worth pursuing.
In my 5th grade classroom, I live for the light-bulb moments when students move from limited understanding to deep, abiding knowledge. Learning requires illumination because when we know better, we do better. In 2026, my hope is to live a life where my aspirational values align with my practiced values. May the year be full of unexpected insights, new realizations, and multiple moments of clarity.
“And if travel is like love, it is, in the end, mostly because it’s a heightened state of awareness, in which we are mindful, receptive, undimmed by familiarity and ready to be transformed. That is why the best trips, like the best love affairs, never really end.” ~Pico Iyer






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